La fête (part one): risky play and the Carnivalesque

The Fight between the Carnival and Lent (1559) by Peter Bruegel the Elder

At a new reading group in London we have been lucky enough to receive some informal translations of Dolto’s work by Sally Bird. We began by slowly reading through her very thoughtful translation of an interview with Dolto in 1978 where Dolto describes something – a concept or a notion, perhaps – which she names la fête.

La fête seems to be something akin to a momentary state of being which involves joy, surprise, a being with others, but also risk. It has both a simplicity and a complexity to it and gave rise to many thoughts about our work with young children in the community both theoretically, and practically in thinking about how we design our spaces.

A first question that arose was the translator’s decision not to translate la fête but to leave it in the original French. Our French colleagues spoke about the very specific connotations of la fête in French – a term, it is worth mentioning, that does not have the same meaning as the village fête in England. In French la fête connotes joy and community, to revel, and to feast with others. And, in Dolto’s la fête there is an enjoyment which only appears through the experience of risk. Dolto describes play itself as “the enjoying of a desire that is carried through to a successful conclusion by way of some risk”. The element of risk in what Dolto describes could not be found in the translations that the group put forward for la fête including how we understand the word ‘fête’ in the English language, and it is this aspect of what she describes, the element of risk, which particularly caught my attention.

Risk

Dolto describes “the risk of freedom”; something which takes place in a liminal space between safety and danger. Thinking of the British context, her opening remark in the interview, “La fête is freedom within security”, echoes that of A.S. Neill’s mantra ‘freedom not license’. It points us towards the idea that joy, or enjoyment needs an element of risk without danger; that risk does not mean ‘anything goes’ (as Neill was often accused of) but that ‘anything goes’ within a framework. Summerhill – the ‘school with no rules’ as the British press liked to call it – has a very fundamental framework of democratic meetings. Similarly, The Maison Verte has a framework: there is a red line (introducing the idea of a limit rather than a border) and the children wear an apron when playing with water. Within this social framework there is no normative which might be found in other settings where things like ‘developmental milestones’ are monitored and regularly assessed. At the Maison Verte there is the risk of subjectivity on offer.

Practically speaking, the discourse of ‘risky play’ which is being developed in the UK also has a very useful mantra: they talk about facilitating ‘risk not hazards’. In one demonstration for example, a play worker pulls out nails from some pieces of wood for his adventure playground. These are a hazard, he says. The fire pit in the middle of the playground, that’s a risk.

The Carnivalesque

The idea of the carnivalesque came up as a possible translation for la fête which includes risk. Although, perhaps, too rowdy and infused with profanity, Mikhail Bakhtin’s ideas of the grotesque and revolution could represent what we do at the Maison Verte, and I was intrigued by this suggestion. In fact, in a more subtle way I think we do see the Maison Verte as having a revolutionary potential. The Maison Verte makes space for the experience of both community and risk, alongside each other, and it makes space for that to be a possibility for our very youngest members of society. Dolto advocates for children to have spaces where they can meet others but also take risks and Dolto described the work as ‘psychoanalysis on the street’. She saw the Maison Verte as the people’s agora which sits outside of the council driven, risk averse, bureaucratic institutions of the nursery and the crèche.

The grotesque aspect of the carnivalesque also resonates. Bakhtin describes the grotesque as a literary trope which expresses “biological and social exchange”. There is an emphasis on the holes of the body – the mouth, the anus – as that through which the outside world enters and leaves: through eating, shitting, singing, burping etc. When reminding myself of Bakhtin’s theory which I read more than 10 years ago, before any engagement with psychoanalysis, I was immediately reminded of the drive and its objects which circulate; the anal, oral, voice and gaze. While at the heart of any psychoanalysis the drive is of particular importance for young children and their parents as they learn to speak, eat solid foods, become ‘potty trained’ and become subjects with a relationship to both the body and the social bond.

Lastly, the carnivalesque, in Bakhtin’s analysis, is constructed through polyphonic dialogue which he describes as creating a ‘dialogic sense of truth’. It involves a decentralisation of the authorial voice in favour of simultaneous points of view. Applying this to our work, I am of course reminded of the Welcomers’ role and the structure which sees a rotation of those who intervene. Welcomers speak neither from the position of the expert nor from the position of the ‘institution’. At a Maison Verte one experiences a polyphony of voices including the Welcomers, other parents and, of course, the children themselves.

While I don’t mean to make a direct comparison between the carnivalesque and Dolto’s concept of la fête, I do think that this sometimes ungraspable phenomenon we call play is a revolutionary work when we give it space. In this interview Dolto describes play as “the enjoying of a desire that is carried through to a successful conclusion by way of some risk” and I am reminded of the video below.

Written by Catherine from The Green House Playgroup

A Post-Pandemic Maison Verte

The Threat of Proximity

Among many of the questions being raised in this period of deep uncertainty is how we will get out of this? Practically speaking, this question can be addressed to our politicians who are so far setting the guidelines, time frames and social limits on each country as they see fit. But what is slowly dawning on us, at least in the UK, is that most of us will have to come out of isolation and relax social distancing before the threat is really over; it is becoming obvious that there will be no clear-cut ending to this crisis. Most of us will slowly go back to work without a definitive sense that the virus has disappeared. The seemingly finite resolution of a vaccine will not, in the end, be so simple. So how will we emerge out of this, practically and psychologically? How will we go back to feeling safe in the presence of others? Will an unknown, invisible threat be passing between people, unspoken, as we try to repatch the social fabric after this crisis? It is the proximity of real bodies which has endangered us and the new signifier ‘social isolation’ – that which should protect us – ironically touches on what we try to alleviate through our Maison Verte spaces. So what place will the social space of the Maison Verte have now?

Ordinary Isolation

For young children in the early years of life, between 0 and 4 years old, there will undoubtedly be a sense that all is not well. Yet, there will not necessarily be a language to symbolise the dis-ease that is in the air, or these strange circumstances in which we are living. Additionally, these children will be missing out on that vital moment of the first social interactions outside the home – those interactions where the delicate but defining balance between separation and attachment have a chance to be played out.

On top of this strange, unprecedented type of social deprivation, many women have also been forced to give birth alone where hospitals are not allowing visitors or birth partners to attend. This is a potentially traumatic experience for mothers and may be compounded by the fact that many of these mothers and children have not had the chance to meet their extended family. Many mothers will have been separated from vital support networks.

However, in normal times we know that alongside the ordinary joy of birth there also exists an ordinary despair experienced privately, and often, and of which little is spoken of. The quiet emotional, social and psychic isolation of new mothers has been of concern in our contemporary, refracted lives for some time. Will this be amplified by what we now call ‘social isolation’? And what about the parents who’s busy lives left little time for the family? There has also been a ‘forced socialisation’ within the family group itself and, I wonder, how has that been experienced?

What Next?

In the emergency of the pandemic these private experiences will not yet be exposed but I want to think ahead, and to provide what is essentially a place of welcome for these young families and children, and to create a space that functions in between the isolation of home and the first tentative steps back into the social world. This has always been the function of the Maison Verte but this function has become urgent in an interventionist sense, in that we must be there to receive these families when the restrictions are lifted. And we must use the time we have now to think about how we will receive them, slowly, delicately, thoughtfully, and how we will think about this repatching of the social fabric alongside them.

The Maison Verte has two aims: it offers and welcomes speech in the place of experience, and it welcomes the child as a subject alongside their parents. These aims now take on a new value at a decisive moment in time. Our society is questioning the disparate, busy lives that neoliberalism insists upon and now is the time to create local spaces for the community to be together, and where parents can take time to see their children play freely and explore the new experience of the social world at their own pace and in their own way. Just as we will all have to do together.

Written by Catherine from The Green House Playgroup

The Green House Playgroup

The first instalment of The Green House Playgroup took place in the Tomato Studio – an alternative learning studio in North Finchley – every Sunday morning from 8am to 11am.

Running the playgroup early on a Sunday morning was an interesting time to be open. It was in fact attended by many families and in particular gave us the opportunity to work with a greater number of fathers than we normally see. Many fathers told us that they used the space to give their wives time alone or time with older children while they had some social time with the youngest members of their family. It was also a chance for fathers to meet other fathers. On the whole we worked with a variety of international families many of who worked in the city and who taught us much about parenting in a hypermodern society.

The team was made up of 3 Welcomers: Catherine Alexander, Chris Kyvernites and Francesca Bova who all learnt their trade at the Maison Verte UK in Finsbury Park.

We ran the project for 1 year and plan to reopen again in Bristol. You can contact us at www.thegreenhouseplaygroup.com or thegreenhouseplaygroup@gmail.com

For a review by one of the parents click here

Written by the team at The Green House Playgroup